Relationship Council

Live forum: http://forum.freeipodguide.com/viewtopic.php?t=32384

akalic

06-02-2006 21:36:42

i'm in a pickle.
Basically, how it happened was, i decided to start making her gifts and cards for 7 days until our anniversary, which is next week. So today i asked her to come to my place and i'll show her. Now, we were both available and we could make it happen, but she said she wanted to get her project done. Then she started saying how she has cheerleading and bla bla and she can't come. But she says, believe me its really tempting but i can't and i wish i could go. So i'm kinda disappointed ( who wouldn't be ) , and i was acting bummed out. THen she gets all bitched up about it and shes like whatever and hangs up on me ( we're on the phone btw). so yea, sorry if this doesn't make sense but i'm really frustrated. Who's to blame?

EatChex89

06-02-2006 21:37:54

woah.

dude.

no, that doesn't make any sense at all. WTF is going on?

akalic

06-02-2006 21:40:25

bah edited a bit

EatChex89

06-02-2006 21:41:44

okay... well girls get bitchy like that. if you're meant to be with her, she'll come back to you.

now i have to cut this short before i shit my pants.

kdollar

06-02-2006 21:43:52

if ur still sixteen, i wouldnt stress about it for a second.

EatChex89

06-02-2006 21:45:00

[quote01a3f2f282="kdollar"]if ur still sixteen, i wouldnt stress about it for a second.[/quote01a3f2f282]

that's what revelation also came to me as I was on the pot..

oh geez i don't feel good, i think i'm going back for a second round soon.. (

hairyferry

06-02-2006 21:48:41

No offence dude but you're 16. Now, if you were 18 or 20 it might be a big deal. Don't waste your time or money because at 16 I can promise you wont be with her by the time you graduate. All it causes is heartache and being pissed off. I'm 23 and I was exactly where you are now when I was 16.

akalic

06-02-2006 21:54:12

i know what you mean, but i'm not ready for a breakup. we've been through too much to break up like this, i'm just wondering whos to blame. i'm not stressing about it, its just a relationship factor that has come up..

theysayjump

06-02-2006 21:57:28

You'll grow up to learn than women are always wrong.

You need me to lock this now? wink

akalic

06-02-2006 21:58:48

hahaha, do what you want P

Nimh

06-02-2006 22:03:07

[quotefc9e411d29="theysayjump"]You'll grow up to learn than women are always wrong.

You need me to lock this now? wink[/quotefc9e411d29]

They'll just never admit it.

damac

06-02-2006 23:22:50

bitches ain't shit friend!!

fashionjunkee

06-02-2006 23:54:02

I had a simple solution to girl troubles....i turned gay.

akalic

07-02-2006 00:06:30

so what does social reject + gay make?

drummer_kew_03

07-02-2006 00:09:42

If she actually hangs up on you, then she's a bitch. It really pisses me off when people do that. I hate cheerleaders anyway.

akalic

07-02-2006 00:23:58

well i finished talking to her jsut now and she thought i was pissed so she thought i didn't want to talk to her so she just hung up after what it seemed to be the end of the convo....

but hey thanks guys! my knowledge on relationships has expanded from the 0 posts of helpful information

synix

07-02-2006 00:33:33

cant really say who's to blame...you were let down after having your hopes up so you probably feel worse than you normally would..but you should understand the reason she can't come...she obviously has an important project that im assuming is due tomorrow or somethin..

unless her project is due like next month...then id say its pretty lame of her to not come over =/

Veek

07-02-2006 07:00:20

[quote7e16231b76="theysayjump"]You'll grow up to learn than women are always wrong.

You need me to lock this now? wink[/quote7e16231b76]

Haha, awesome.

jadem

07-02-2006 07:05:33

If you want to be with her and you want to make things work, why are you asking who's fault it is? Anyone in a serious relationship (and who answers seriously) would know that, sure it's fun to win, but when it's all said and done, it's much better to work things out and move past it.

crazyates

07-02-2006 07:15:08

^^^exactly well said

and why are you asking about relationship issues on a FREE IPOD FORUM?!?! god, does it get any worse that that?

sorry i just had to say it[/sizea3f15eff53]

fashionjunkee

07-02-2006 08:28:37

[quotedcdbcd387a="akalic"]so what does social reject + gay make?[/quotedcdbcd387a]

x Dude I'm no social rejet. Actually probably more social than lets say...you. It wa a joke. I could hae had pretty much any girl in my high school. I simply chose to not date them.

jadem

07-02-2006 08:30:47

[quote0564b3ad41="fashionjunkee"][quote0564b3ad41="akalic"]so what does social reject + gay make?[/quote0564b3ad41]

x Dude I'm no social rejet. Actually probably more social than lets say...you. It wa a joke. I could hae had pretty much any girl in my high school. I simply chose to not date them.[/quote0564b3ad41]

lisighli I can't stop myself from saying this but...most guys who say that, weren't the guys that could have gotten the girls. They were the ones trying to get the girls but got snubbed. (

fashionjunkee

07-02-2006 08:35:27

[quote8717812e4d="jadem"][quote8717812e4d="fashionjunkee"][quote8717812e4d="akalic"]so what does social reject + gay make?[/quote8717812e4d]

x Dude I'm no social rejet. Actually probably more social than lets say...you. It wa a joke. I could hae had pretty much any girl in my high school. I simply chose to not date them.[/quote8717812e4d]

lisighli I can't stop myself from saying this but...most guys who say that, weren't the guys that could have gotten the girls. They were the ones trying to get the girls but got snubbed. ([/quote8717812e4d]

Like I said I could have just decided to become a fag. Guys were better.

jadem

07-02-2006 08:45:35

I'm confused at how you say you "turned" gay...

I, myself, am not gay, but I was always under the impression that it wasn't a choice. Or am I just arguing semantics?

Veek

07-02-2006 08:51:19

Jadem, it's a matter of who you hear it from.

Some might say they were born gay, mainly because they remember being gay since they were kids. Others just "turn gay."

We had this discussion in the "homosexuality" thread but a bunch of ignorant rednecks decided to be stupid about the whole thing and the thread was locked.

fashionjunkee

07-02-2006 10:10:03

People take things too seriously around here. I didnt mean I actually turned gay. I've been gay since I could remember. At one time I was attracted to girls. As I got older it kinda fizzled away roll .

CollidgeGraduit

07-02-2006 10:12:59

[quotefdcd91f96b="fashionjunkee"]At one time I was attracted to girls. As I got older it kinda fizzled away roll .[/quotefdcd91f96b]

Marriage will do that to a man.......... lol lol lol lol

kevxross

07-02-2006 10:22:12

[quoted5f6f151ed="crazyates"]^^^exactly well said

and why are you asking about relationship issues on a FREE iPod FORUM?!?! god, [bd5f6f151ed]does it get any worse that that[/bd5f6f151ed]?

sorry i just had to say it[/sized5f6f151ed][/quoted5f6f151ed]

Yes, it does. A 16 year old who's never had a girlfriend (and happens to be gay) giving out the advice licoughlichexlicoughli

EatChex89

07-02-2006 10:28:06

[quote1c6f6e5b06="kevxross"][quote1c6f6e5b06="crazyates"]^^^exactly well said

and why are you asking about relationship issues on a FREE iPod FORUM?!?! god, [b1c6f6e5b06]does it get any worse that that[/b1c6f6e5b06]?

sorry i just had to say it[/size1c6f6e5b06][/quote1c6f6e5b06]

Yes, it does. A 16 year old who's never had a girlfriend (and happens to be gay) giving out the advice licoughlichexlicoughli[/quote1c6f6e5b06]

roll

No, I never had a girlfriend because we never decided to "go out". Hell I woulda asked her but we had already discussed that we were going to remain friends.. unfortunately we didn't see each other for like 2 months and she moved on cry

I'll find someone new. It's hard to get someone when you are homeschooled, and then freaking go to college where all the girls are like 19, and when they find out how old you are they get all freaked out.

crazyates

07-02-2006 13:34:19

[quote987bda404b="kevxross"][quote987bda404b="crazyates"]^^^exactly well said

and why are you asking about relationship issues on a FREE iPod FORUM?!?! god, [b987bda404b]does it get any worse that that[/b987bda404b]?

sorry i just had to say it[/size987bda404b][/quote987bda404b]

Yes, it does. A 16 year old who's never had a girlfriend (and happens to be gay) giving out the advice licoughlichexlicoughli[/quote987bda404b]

see i actually don't have a problem w/ that...but that's mostly b/cuz i'm in almost the same situation as he is oops the difference being i'm 17 and just now getting a girlfriend. but ya when you're homeschooled it is a bit harder

pokernerdaa

07-02-2006 13:40:13

[quote8ae3012da3="kdollar"]if ur still sixteen, i wouldnt stress about it for a second.[/quote8ae3012da3]

Ahmen. I know I can't talk given my age, but even if she breaks up with you (it would suck cuz she's a cheerleader, but....) there's plenty of other women! Not that I would know because I don't have the balls to talk to them, im just a http//forum.freeipodguide.com/smilies_mod/upload/438c5ea8d36dd8f0ccf42ead5e26f4fc.gif[" alt=""/img8ae3012da3]

crazyates

07-02-2006 13:44:59

[quote8aca8abce4="PokerNerdAA"][quote8aca8abce4="kdollar"]if ur still sixteen, i wouldnt stress about it for a second.[/quote8aca8abce4]

Ahmen. I know I can't talk given my age, but even if she breaks up with you (it would suck cuz she's a cheerleader, but....) there's plenty of other women! Not that I would know because I don't have the balls to talk to them, im just a http//forum.freeipodguide.com/smilies_mod/upload/438c5ea8d36dd8f0ccf42ead5e26f4fc.gif[" alt=""/img8aca8abce4][/quote8aca8abce4]

god, this is the reason why i would sleep better at night if you were banned. after that entire thread about you paying $10 for advise on girls, and then you wouldn't actually take any of the advise given, you have no right to start telling other people
[quote8aca8abce4="PokerNerdAA"]there's plenty of other women![/quote8aca8abce4]this has to be the most retarded post all day

kdollar

07-02-2006 13:48:23

ok i made a post earlier b/c this is dumb and ur sixteen and ur gonna have so much more happen to you, this wont even be rememberd in the future. but since ur in a "pickle" ill help u out, shes not worth it....therefore to take ur mind off it, forget about her, cut her off completely and make her so jealous she will practically drop panties when she hears ur name a couple months from now.

ideas for this.....shall be, physical appearance, since she will only see u from now on.......buy some new clothes, workout, change ur hair, do something to stick out.

second, start talkn to every girl possible, especially girls she hangs out with, who gives a shit what u say, make some cool lies up about yourself, the point is make sure it gets to her. and if ur always talkn to girls, she will notice.

it will take some time, always does, and u will still like her im sure, but soon u will have another chick and u will know why it didnt work with her, then she will be regrettin it ).......hey try it out what do u have to lose.

aguy

07-02-2006 13:53:46

so i was fucking this chick last night

and the bitch answered the phone in the middle.. and shes like.. my boyfriend wants me to come over so he can give me somthing... prolly some cheap ass ipod he got for free now hes getting all emo about it..

money shot.. then i left

tylerc

07-02-2006 13:59:16

[quote4ede61993b="aguy"]so i was fucking this chick last night

and the bitch answered the phone in the middle.. and shes like.. my boyfriend wants me to come over so he can give me somthing... prolly some cheap ass iPod he got for free now hes getting all emo about it..

money shot.. then i left[/quote4ede61993b]

http//home.comcast.net/~k_laster/orly.jpeg[" alt=""/img4ede61993b]

EatChex89

07-02-2006 14:00:45

lmao aguy

pokernerdaa

07-02-2006 14:03:19

[quote36985d58b0="crazyates"]

god, this is the reason why i would sleep better at night if you were banned. after that entire thread about you paying $10 for advise on girls, and then you wouldn't actually take any of the advise given, you have no right to start telling other people
[quote36985d58b0="PokerNerdAA"]there's plenty of other women![/quote36985d58b0]this has to be the most retarded post all day[/quote36985d58b0]

did you not read my entire post? Apprently not. I'm aware of the fact there's other women, hence my current girlfriend. and i did take some advice and i did talk to that girl, thanks.

Veek

07-02-2006 14:04:00

Haha, tyler.

tylerc

07-02-2006 14:07:15

[quotee9821e265f="PokerNerdAA"]
did you not read my entire post? Apprently not. I'm aware of the fact there's other women, hence my current girlfriend. and i did take some advice and i did talk to that girl, thanks.[/quotee9821e265f]

You have a girlfriend?

pokernerdaa

07-02-2006 16:58:01

[quote8a4b6ea95d="tylerc"]
You have a girlfriend?[/quote8a4b6ea95d]

believe it or not i'm nothing like i present myself on this forum....

crazyates

07-02-2006 17:02:35

god i should hope not

J4320

07-02-2006 17:09:56

[quote2bf908c6ce="PokerNerdAA"][quote2bf908c6ce="tylerc"]
You have a girlfriend?[/quote2bf908c6ce]

believe it or not i'm nothing like i present myself on this forum....[/quote2bf908c6ce]


u maek no sence

theysayjump

07-02-2006 17:11:12

[quote53552562cc="crazyates"]god i should hope not[/quote53552562cc]

Don't start young man.

There's no need to start insulting the kid. If you (people on here in general) don't like PokerNerdAA then fine, but don't go around insulting him.

Usually people stay away from others they dislike. Apply it here.

J4320

07-02-2006 17:12:01

[quote3acb30ae82="theysayjump"][quote3acb30ae82="crazyates"]god i should hope not[/quote3acb30ae82]

Don't start young man.

There's no need to start insulting the kid. If you (people on here in general) don't like PokerNerdAA then fine, but don't go around insulting him.

Usually people stay away from others they dislike. Apply it here.[/quote3acb30ae82]

Yeah it seems that crazyates tries to insult a lot of noobs he doesn't like and it's kind of annoying.

justinag06

07-02-2006 17:24:26

especially since he is so far removed from being a noob himself with the extra month longer he's been here compared to pokernerd or others

crazyates

07-02-2006 17:56:26

i try not to be a noob even if i have only been here for 2 months. i don't look for noobs to make fun of, but you honestly can't deny that pokernerd is an annoying person. you can't deny it.

i'm sorry, and if you want i'll take back my previous coment. happy?

tylerc

07-02-2006 18:13:29

Jeez, I got a temp-ban for saying things that weren't half as rude as what crazyates has said. I just told a guy to leave.

akalic

07-02-2006 18:17:58

[quote466eb10c57="PokerNerdAA"][quote466eb10c57="tylerc"]
You have a girlfriend?[/quote466eb10c57]

believe it or not i'm nothing like i present myself on this forum....[/quote466eb10c57]

so my theory about you being an attention whore, proves correct.

anywho, i've been with her for one year so i'm not really THAT upset to dump her, thanks for the heads up guys, appreciate it P

too much drama in this thread roll

pokernerdaa

07-02-2006 18:24:48

not going to lie i guess i have post whored and tried to make topics that will get hundreds of replies and thousands of views...... i guess it's because it's like the opposite of my real life personality.....i'm working on that though