im addicted to ***....

but the problem is, i am in a long term relationship and in love. Also the relationship is long distance now. so its hard. i want to and am staying faithful. but its so hard. whats the easiest way to go about this.

ADDICTED TO SEX? WHAT!?!? LOL. Did the relationship start out where you lived in the same city?

yes of course it started out in the same city. we have been together for a while. (8mos)

but its terrible, im deprieved i check anyone out.

I believe it's time for you to "talk to the hand."

[quote0b4b00bd24="xs10shul"]I believe it's time for you to "talk to the hand."[/quote0b4b00bd24]

i know thats the logical thing to do. but it doesnt help. after i am still horny. which doesnt make sense. maybe i have a hormone imbalance ?

make a surprise visit to go see her.

good ... will dothat

If you're in a relationship, in love, and monogamous you really have no choice other than to deal with it. Jerk off more, find distractions, get less hung up about sex. Someone you care about is a hell of a lot more important than just getting off.

8mo isnt that long..........just start bangin other girls..


~Dr.Phil

[quotec4e0c6dc72="NeoWolf"]If you're in a relationship, in love, and monogamous you really have no choice other than to deal with it. Jerk off more, find distractions, get less hung up about sex. Someone you care about is a hell of a lot more important than just getting off.[/quotec4e0c6dc72]

thats the best advice ive heard so far, you are right its worth more to me staying w/her than hooking up. i mean instant gratification or ???

[quote3a2ea58555="Lunarpancake"]8mo isnt that long..........just start bangin other girls..


~Dr.Phil[/quote3a2ea58555]

HAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAAH, Phil's a pimp but he wouldn't say that, shame on you wink

[quoteadb2472c89="whitegreyhat"][quoteadb2472c89="NeoWolf"]If you're in a relationship, in love, and monogamous you really have no choice other than to deal with it. Jerk off more, find distractions, get less hung up about sex. Someone you care about is a hell of a lot more important than just getting off.[/quoteadb2472c89]

thats the best advice ive heard so far, you are right its worth more to me staying w/her than hooking up. i mean instant gratification or ???[/quoteadb2472c89]

And if you need a little bit of incentive for your lower brain, when you are back to being close to eachother, the sex is gonna be mindlowing. 8)

[quote154b57db14="NeoWolf"][quote154b57db14="whitegreyhat"][quote154b57db14="NeoWolf"]If you're in a relationship, in love, and monogamous you really have no choice other than to deal with it. Jerk off more, find distractions, get less hung up about sex. Someone you care about is a hell of a lot more important than just getting off.[/quote154b57db14]

thats the best advice ive heard so far, you are right its worth more to me staying w/her than hooking up. i mean instant gratification or ???[/quote154b57db14]

And if you need a little bit of incentive for your lower brain, when you are back to being close to eachother, the sex is gonna be mindlowing. 8)[/quote154b57db14]

Mind blowing? Wouldn't that mean she'd be blowing your mind out with a pistol? o lol

[quote67162ea814="NeoWolf"]Mind blowing? Wouldn't that mean she'd be blowing your mind out with a pistol? o lol[/quote67162ea814]

That's probably more along the lines of if he follows Dr. Phil's advice up there. lol

I'd love to give some input...but I'm thinking I might be better off keeping to myself on this one.

[quoteb7152ec2e5="FreeOffersNow"]I'd love to give some input...but I'm thinking I might be better off keeping to myself on this one.[/quoteb7152ec2e5]

As will I. I don't know if you would particularly care for my flavor of advice. I will say this however - I was in a long distance relationship for 7 months, until my boyfriend (now fiance) moved across the country to be with me. It's a very, very hard thing to committ yourself to. Some relationships can work, some can't. It all depends on you. Our relationship started on the internet, and now, well, we're getting married ) Look on the web - there are countless support groups and websites for long distance relationships.

haha you're addicted to lilili does that mean you like getting hit on the head? because in cartoons when people get hit in the head they get li around them. lol

mrgreen